Anything And Everything

Play or Perish By Khanyisa Manganyi Marriage is beautiful… until you discover that your definition of “fun” is your husband’s definition of “attempted murder.” Some men are gentle darlings, lovers of romantic mischief . They’ll toss a pillow softly on your head, splash a little water on your hair while you swim, or even play a silly boxing match with hands lighter than feathers. They laugh when you laugh, and their play feels like love in motion. But then there are the raw men. The ones who think games are for children, and the moment you try to spark some playful romance, you realize you might have signed up for a lifetime of self-defense. Try a pillow fight? You’ll end up with a fractured shoulder from a continental pillow launched with the strength of a thousand ancestors. Suggest a water fight at the pool? You’ll be halfway to heaven while he’s holding you under, convinced this is a Navy SEAL exercise . Attempt to playfully smack his arm? He’ll return the favor so hard you’ll b...

  The Day an Angel Grew Muscles By Khanyisa Manganyi She was the kind of woman who made people stop mid-conversation just to stare. Soft eyes that carried kindness, a smile that could calm storms, and a beauty so radiant she looked like she’d borrowed a bit of heaven’s glow. To top it off, she wasn’t just pretty—she was the sort of “ wife material ” people prayed for: gentle, respectful, and caring to a fault. A living example of Proverbs 31 , wrapped in grace and sprinkled with laughter. When she got married, it felt like a fairytale. Her husband, at first, was everything she could have dreamed of. Charming, protective, loving—he even pulled chairs out for her at restaurants. But as time passed, that prince charming switched masks and turned into something else entirely. The man who once kissed her forehead began to use his fists instead. Her once angelic face often looked like she’d been in a boxing match she never signed up for. Peace left her home, and she became a silent su...

Why Do We Women Relax After Marriage? By Khanyisa Manganyi Ok, I’m going to say it. South African women — some , not all — we need to talk 👀. I’m not dragging anyone, but if the wig fits, hey, maybe it’s time to brush it 💁🏾‍♀️. Let me start with a soft disclaimer before you grab your cooking spoon like a weapon 🍲⚔️: I’m not saying every woman must wear makeup and lashes that can create a hurricane when she blinks. I’m definitely not that woman. I’m natural and beautiful 😌 (yes, allow me to say that without blowing my own way too much 😅). But let’s be honest — something strange happens when a ring lands on that finger 💍. Women transform... and not always in a good way. I’ve seen it. You’ve seen it. Your neighbor’s cousin’s sister’s friend is probably doing it right now 🤷🏾‍♀️. Before the wedding, the woman is clean, stylish, neat — she looks like she was sent by Beyoncé to teach us what self-care means 👑. But after two years? Yoh! The same woman is walking around the house ...

  Man, Know Your Worth! (And Why You Shouldn’t Settle for Scraps) Let’s get straight to it: if you’ve ever seen a man silently grab his keys, put on his shoes, and walk away from a cheating partner without yelling, throwing her clothes out the window, or going full soap opera drama… just know one thing: that man knows his worth. He didn’t leave because he thought he wasn’t enough. He left because he knows he’s more than enough. You see, somewhere between fixing leaking taps, taking the trash out in his Superman boxers, and pretending he’s not scared of that spider in the bathroom, a real man learns an important lesson: his love, time, energy, and loyalty are priceless . And he’s not about to waste those on someone who treats relationships like a free trial subscription. But wait—let’s not make this a gender battle arena. Of course, women aren’t the only ones who cheat. No, no, no. We’ve all met that one guy who could flirt with a lamppost if it gave him attention. In fact, som...

Hearts of Strength In a world where the roles of men and women are often debated and redefined, the Word of God remains a steady compass, pointing us back to the original design. According to the Bible, men are not just called to be leaders of the household, but vessels through whom God channels protection, provision, and sacrificial love to women. This divine assignment is not rooted in pride or superiority but in humility and service. Let’s explore the sacred role of men as protectors and providers, the divine command for them to love their wives, and the truth that when women are loved well, they naturally become the best versions of themselves—submissive, nurturing, and devoted. 1. Men as Divine Vessels: A Sacred Role From the beginning of creation, God designed man with a purpose: to lead, guard, and cultivate. In Genesis 2:15, God placed Adam in the garden “to work it and take care of it.” That responsibility extended beyond the physical land—it included caring...