Why Do We Women Relax After Marriage?

Why Do We Women Relax After Marriage? By Khanyisa Manganyi Ok, I’m going to say it. South African women — some , not all — we need to talk 👀. I’m not dragging anyone, but if the wig fits, hey, maybe it’s time to brush it 💁🏾♀️. Let me start with a soft disclaimer before you grab your cooking spoon like a weapon 🍲⚔️: I’m not saying every woman must wear makeup and lashes that can create a hurricane when she blinks. I’m definitely not that woman. I’m natural and beautiful 😌 (yes, allow me to say that without blowing my own way too much 😅). But let’s be honest — something strange happens when a ring lands on that finger 💍. Women transform... and not always in a good way. I’ve seen it. You’ve seen it. Your neighbor’s cousin’s sister’s friend is probably doing it right now 🤷🏾♀️. Before the wedding, the woman is clean, stylish, neat — she looks like she was sent by Beyoncé to teach us what self-care means 👑. But after two years? Yoh! The same woman is walking around the house ...