Anything And Everything

Play or Perish By Khanyisa Manganyi Marriage is beautiful… until you discover that your definition of “fun” is your husband’s definition of “attempted murder.” Some men are gentle darlings, lovers of romantic mischief . They’ll toss a pillow softly on your head, splash a little water on your hair while you swim, or even play a silly boxing match with hands lighter than feathers. They laugh when you laugh, and their play feels like love in motion. But then there are the raw men. The ones who think games are for children, and the moment you try to spark some playful romance, you realize you might have signed up for a lifetime of self-defense. Try a pillow fight? You’ll end up with a fractured shoulder from a continental pillow launched with the strength of a thousand ancestors. Suggest a water fight at the pool? You’ll be halfway to heaven while he’s holding you under, convinced this is a Navy SEAL exercise . Attempt to playfully smack his arm? He’ll return the favor so hard you’ll b...

The Cry of Silent Blood   (Christian Genocide) By Khanyisa Manganyi There are cries rising from the earth right now—cries too deep for words, too haunting to be ignored. In Nigeria , and in other parts of the world, innocent men, women, and children are being slaughtered for their faith. Churches are burned, villages wiped out, and families scattered, yet the world seems strangely silent. Leaders, media outlets, and even those who once claimed to be voices for justice have grown cold, turning their faces away as if the lives of these people mean less than the noise of politics and entertainment. It is as though humanity has placed blindfolds on itself, refusing to see the streams of blood that run where believers once sang hymns. But God sees. He hears every cry, every whispered prayer, every mother’s wail as she clutches the remains of her child. He is not deaf, nor is He blind. And we who are called by His name cannot afford to be silent either. If one member of the Body suffers...

The Battle of Vitiligo By Khanyisa Manganyi Vitiligo is one of those conditions that sparks more myths than facts, and sadly, those myths can be just as damaging as the condition itself. It’s a skin disorder that causes patches of skin to lose their pigment, creating lighter areas on the body. This happens because the cells that produce melanin — the pigment that gives our skin, hair, and eyes their color — are either destroyed or stop working. The exact cause isn’t fully understood, but research points to it being an autoimmune condition , where the body mistakenly attacks its own pigment-producing cells. It’s not contagious, it’s not the result of poor hygiene, and it’s definitely not a curse. Yet, for many people living with vitiligo, the real struggle isn’t just the condition, but the stares, whispers, and wild theories. I once overheard a traditional healer talking to an elder, saying the reason her grandson’s skin looked that way was because he stole something and someone cur...

The Hidden Loneliness of Always Being Strong: Why Even the Strong Need a Shoulder to Lean On In a world that celebrates resilience and strength, there’s a hidden burden carried by those who seem to have it all together. We cheer for the unbreakable and praise the unwavering, but what we often fail to see is the quiet loneliness that can accompany that constant show of strength. The Mask of Strength We all know someone who seems to handle everything life throws at them—calmly, gracefully, and without complaint. They’re the ones people rely on in a crisis, the steady hands that hold everything together when everyone else is falling apart. Perhaps you’re that person yourself. But behind the mask of unshakeable strength lies a truth that’s rarely spoken: it can be a very lonely place to live. Strength, after all, isn’t about never feeling pain or never needing help. It’s about facing challenges head-on and still finding the courage to keep going. Yet when strength becomes...

Why Adulting is Overrated and How to Fake It Like a Pro Let’s be real, folks—adulting is a scam. You spend your entire childhood wishing you were older so you can eat cake for breakfast, stay up all night watching TV, and not have to ask permission to go out. Fast forward a few decades, and suddenly you’re paying bills, folding laundry at 2 am, and crying over how expensive toothpaste has become. 🫠 But here’s the good news: you don’t have to have it all together. Nope! In fact, faking adulthood has practically become an art form. If you’ve ever thought, “Wait, is everyone else faking it too?”—you’re absolutely right! So let’s take a deep breath, sip our lukewarm coffee, and dive into why adulting is overrated and how to fake it like a total pro. 💁‍♀️ The Myth of Adulting 💡 First off, what even is adulting? We’ve been sold this glossy image of an adult: someone who wakes up at 6 am, does yoga, eats kale, and has a color-coded planner. But let’s be honest: ...

  How to Pretend You Have Your Life Together (Without Anyone Finding Out) 😎✨ Let’s face it: adulting is hard. Like, really hard. Some days, I can barely remember to put on matching socks, let alone conquer the chaos of life like a Zen master. Yet, somehow, society expects us to walk around like we have it all figured out. Spoiler alert: Nobody actually does . But if you want to master the art of looking like you have your life together — without anyone discovering the glorious mess underneath — buckle up. This guide’s for you. 😉 Step 1: Master the “I’m Fine” Smile and Nodding 🤐🙃 The secret sauce of pretending is the subtle art of the smile-and-nod. When someone asks, “How are you?” you don’t need to unload your emotional baggage or reveal that you binged three seasons of a show last night because you couldn’t deal with your to-do list. Just flash your best “I’m thriving” smile, nod confidently, and say something vague like: “Oh, you know, living the dream!”...

Peer Pressure: How to Say ‘Nope’ Without Losing Friends or Your Mind Let’s be honest—peer pressure isn’t just a teen thing. It shows up at every age, wearing different outfits. In high school, it might look like skipping class to fit in. In adulthood, it can be overspending to keep up with the Joneses or saying “yes” when your soul screams “no.” Whether you're 16 or 60, peer pressure whispers, “Don’t be weird—just go along.” But here’s the truth: going along can sometimes lead you way off track. So how do you stand your ground without becoming a social outcast or sounding like a walking motivational poster? Let’s break it down—with a little wisdom, a splash of humor, and some solid tools to help you stay true to yourself. What Is Peer Pressure, Really? Peer pressure is the invisible force that tries to make you act a certain way so you’ll be accepted, liked, or admired by a group. It’s the social version of FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out). It’s your co-work...